Ever heard of sex without the actual act of sex? Orgasms without the need to penetrate and get wet? Well, I am here to talk about ‘DRY HUMPING’………………………… jump onto the bandwagon and let’s get this ball rolling, shall we!
What is dry humping?
In layman terms, dry humping is dry sex. They also refer to it as outer course, when you and your mate are fully clothed, in the mood, turned on, hard erections, and grinding against one another to relish the sexual yummies. That’s dry humping for you. Ever done it?
Tried and tested
With a fuckbuddy, I tried the dry humping for a week last month and there were many benefits I found for myself. I would like to share them with you.
- It gave me a sense of euphoria, bringing me back to my days of nirvana, when as a teen I had heightened sexual arousal moments
- It gave me a sense of satisfaction; I love cuddling, and with dry humping, the more I did it, the more my fuckbuddy and I got to cuddle. We did have amazing orgasms too, and it was a win-win for us both.
- You do not need to race against time to see who cums first. And you do not need to bother about worrying if you are doing it right; just go with the flow.
- You get to look into his eyes more, you get to feel his touch, his bites, his grips and twitches better; dry humping detaches you from the need of undressing, so time saved is time more spent with him
- You get better sleep! I cannot emphasize on this enough!
What the dos are like for dry humping!
- Do express yourself while orgasming with your partner. There is nothing to be embarrassed about
- When I say clothed and dry hump, please remove some clothing or else there is no fun.
- Think of dry humping as being on a psychedelic trip.
- Do enjoy the sexual high it gives you through the whole body that has submerged into delicious sexual tension
- Do understand the urge to control on going down on him and ripping his undies off; remember it is dry humping!
- Try a variety of position. They have benefits and you would not get bored or pained
- Never compromise on the foreplay; don’t use your tongue though. Your hands and legs can do the talking, use your imagination, you are not that dumb!
- Caress, grope, rub lips on each others erogenous zones sans allowing the saliva flow. Moan and coo in each other’s ears. Build up excitement and rhythm
- Play soft music, ambient lighting, aroma candles and incense can enhance the mood
- You can use sex toys if you want. Anal beads, dildos, cock rings et al!
Best positions
- Go missionary on the bloke. Grind your cock to his, and directly stimulate his frenelum (refer to my earlier post on frenelum). Communicate through words, actions and gestures when he grinds your nest. Spread your legs well, for him to rest on the nesting zone and allowing him to press more against you, whilst your hands pull his hair as he loves it. Thrust your body upwards for more contact with him, feel his breath and enjoy the moment.
- Try the cowgirl pose. Sit on his cock as though it was your prized hot seat. Take control on the thrusts you shower his manhood with; grind using the crack of your buttocks on his penis and scrotum. Stimulate his crotch with more grinds as you look into his eyes and rub lips wild on his.
- Spoon him lazy and nice. Give him great bum puff actions, whilst cupping his phallus and testicles, whispering sexy talks in his ears, nibbling them. All this while your hands are on his underwear. Bring your hands close to his nipples, or allow him to guide you there. Twitch and pinch him where he likes to be twitched and pinched. Dry fuck him sideways.
- Try face-sitting. The ultimate in dry humping. Allowing him on your face, while he dry humps your mouth. No tongue action, no wetting him at all. Keep it dry, caress his buttocks as he moans.
- Nipple to nipple action. Arouse his nipples with your fingers, whilst he does the same for you. Look into one another’s eyes doing that. Gently lay on the bed and connect each others chests where the nipples meet; do the grind
The rest I shall leave up to you for imagination and creativity. Have fun my darlings!