Having seen those gay men who are old, I could only think of two possible options for them - The Masc and the Fem. Going through Instagram and Facebook, I have ... Read More...
Public, unfounded accusations are what we, as LGBT people, suffer every day of our lives. Unlike the internet vigilantes, we should see the irony and the contradiction in repeating those dangerous and lawless tactics pretending it is justice we seek through them.
After some bitter experiences in the Gay world, I had decided to go with the Straight world, to gel in. But as it turns out, I don't feel like myself over there too.
My roommate told me I could never be a man. No boy is a clean freak, no boy loves shopping. It is necessary for a man to stay messier to fit into the gender
Whenever I would get to know about his presence, I would hide myself. I lived in many cities, away from my village, but was always insecure. I lost my confidence and became fragile.
While trying to fit into the normative gender roles of a guy, I sub-consciously departed from the real me, killed the real me with my drag self, forgot what being the real me feels like.
India celebrated the 70th year of freedom, but I want to ask, are we gays really free? We have to live in our own country and city under constant fear.
And as a mother of a gay son, she championed rights for gays and broke all the notions about homosexuality threatening Indian family values and moral fabric.