But I have also noticed at pubs and bars, straight men when they binge, they kind of get physical and touchy with one another. And when you find a group of straight men, drunk and on the floor, shaking their gorgeous behinds to the pulsating beats of chikni chameli and munni badnaam hui, it makes you stop and wonder, could there be an iota of “gayness” in them?
When in college and drinking with buddies, I wasn’t out to most about my sexuality. I remember this one incident when a new “straight” guy was introduced to our circle. That evening we had a get together at a friends place and it went on till wee hours of the night. It was around 2 a.m. when all were asleep and just the two of us still drinking that he made advances. Well he was certainly my type to have a one night stand with, but I didn’t want to take my chances.
I shrugged it off and never spoke about it ever to him, he did the same. While camping with strangers in Himachal on a field trip conducted by one of my work places, I felt the same advances again from a Gujjar fella!! Now call it horniness or maybe a bootcamp of men which drove him to go commando seeing me in my bare essentials, I wonder if alcohol had anything to do with it, because he walked into my room drunk and naked.
Many gay men I know say the same experiences have happened with them, especially with “Straight” guys around. This incites curiosity in me, are these guys really “straight” or “is it the alcohol”? I would really like to speak to a psychologist, a social psychologist that has done enough of research on gay and straight men, I need answers to this.
One of my gay best friends told me, he was spending the night at a straight friend’s place, when they got drinking. Through their conversations they started talking about sex, women, gays, lesbians and everything around, including porn. Needless to say, the energy between the two of them and gallons of Bacchus drowning them, they ended up having sex with one another, full fledged and hardcore. I heard they still do, sans the alcohol at times, so was it the sex talk, the alcohol or just a gay man having sex with a bisexual, bi-curios or a closeted gay friend?
I wouldn’t know the answers to all of these at once, since I am no expert. Hence I decided to bring this topic forward to our readers, because I sincerely believe that at least some of us have dealt with such issues, and maybe willing to share our insights! What do you say? Would you like to tell us anonymously if need be about four beers turning him gay?
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