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You don’t really have to be gay to want to have our sex tips listed as part of your sex skill set. Really; the truth is, we know how important sex is for a healthy relationship and we’ll always give our best to keep it cumming (get it, get it?). 

Still, although we do cheer every couple out there to keep the sheets hot and sweaty (regardless of their sexual preferences and orientation), this time around we’ll be focusing on gay couples a little bit more as, well, they do things slightly differently than the heterosexual ones.

So, read on to learn about five top tips we recommend you start following the minute you finish reading this article:

Go back door

Knock, knock… who’s there?
It’s butt!
Butt who?
Butt action!

Contrary to popular belief, anal penetration, tongue or otherwise, isn’t really the only thing gay men do. Their sexual experiences go way beyond that, and that’s what’s making the whole thing intriguing every single time. Still, the butt does make for a popular spot for pleasure but it doesn’t have to be penetrated. One of the best sex tips you’ll ever get (at least in terms of butt manipulation) is to postpone penetration and focus on anal teasing. An anal massage will take you a long way and drive your partner nuts with pleasure! Whether you are using your fingertips to massage the area, hot air blown through your mouth or even your tongue, you want to keep things very gentle, touchy and light. Find the position that makes the access to THAT area easy and one that’s comfy for your partner. Use lube or don’t (we recommend you do) and tease your partner until they climax while gently kissing them on the mouth, neck, shoulders and chest. The whole “process” is a twist on edging (and we all love edging oh-so-dearly).

An anal massage will take you a long way and drive your partner nuts with pleasure! Whether you are using your fingertips to massage the area, hot air blown through your mouth or even your tongue, you want to keep things very gentle, touchy and light.

Drink some tea

Whatever happened to the good ol’ tea bagging, right? Assuming you know what tea bagging is, we’ll remind you to embrace it in full speed and treat your partner to the most intense climax of his life. Start with a sensual blow job and move further south. Gently caress your partner’s balls with your tongue and lips (just watch the teeth and suction!). Follow your partner’s reactions to your “skill” so you can channel the tension firmness, and pressure. Don’t stop until they climax.

Play it up a little

By now, you know your partner’s sensibilities better than anyone… so, what’s stopping you from taking things to the next level? Although stimulating sex toys aren’t generally a novelty to gay couples (ladies or gents), you need to select the right adult toys to get your partner in the right mood. Toys are perfect for special occasions or when you want to spice things up; or, if you use them on a regular basis, switch between toys both you and your partner love. From the regular entertainment like cuffs, blindfolds and dildos to (vibrating) butt plugs and butt rings– everything works.

Go to the kitchen

Or outside, whatever – as long you keep things interesting. One of the best tips for your awesome sex life is to forget about limiting sex to your bedroom only. There’s no reason you should turn into THAT COUPLE and fall asleep straight after you’ve climaxed while there’s still cum all over you. Give yourself and your partner the chance to channel the wild in you. Sex  on the kitchen counter, doggy or with his legs on your shoulders, take him in any of the dark corners of your local park, try the back seat of your car or go down on him in the shower while he’s getting ready for work… life’s too short to stay in the bedroom, isn’t it?

Be present

What’s typical for most gay couples is that they lose interest in each other pretty fast; obviously, we’re not saying this goes for every couple out there but it has been noted to happen often. To prevent this from happening, the next time you get into it with your partner, don’t just… have sex; rather, connect with them emotionally, follow their mind, read their desires and let them do the same. In surrendering yourself to them, you both will experience amazing levels of both sexual and emotional satisfaction… we promise!

Peter Minkoff
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